#BeADriverOfYourLife

"The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You don't blame them on your mother, the ecology or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny" ~Albert Ellis

Indeed life begins at the end of your comfort zone, all these happened during my high school days. while i was on my comfort zone everything was cool, no friction, no worries but deep down there was no action. I was just like an object, when things go wrong i tend to blame it on others. If i get low grades i then blamed it on my teachers, my poor performance i blamed in on lack of study materials at school but the funny thing is there were some learners who were like me but they were excelling in their studies. 

Yeah you know they say at the end of the day your pillow will have a conversation with you every night before you sleep, at some point it'll even wakes you up just to chat with you. Yes! I did self analysis and check where am lacking, what makes me different from my classmates who were getting good grades and myself. The only positive thing I noticed is that THEY DON'T PUT BLAME ON OTHERS, ohh 🙈gosh how i remember i used to put blame on others and act as a victim all the time really ruined my time. 

True they say if you want to fly with eagles you'll learn to fly to a great heights, i started to be close to good performing learners mostly in all things i was no longer putting the blame on others but myself. Once you see the results you won't give up i continued working harder. 

The same thing doesn't happen only in classroom, it also happens everywhere in real life when things do go our way we tend to point fingers on the government, our bosses, our partners and colleagues. Believe you me, the moment you stop blaming others for everything that happens around you, you'll start to see things in a different way. Let's put it on a taste, you go and do self-introspection and check where you blamed others where it was your fault and work on rectifying the mistakes without waiting for someone to do it for you.